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Learn how to lead effortlessly by establishing boundaries, collaborting with people with different work styles, and making delegation easier, all while lowering stress and feeling confident in any role, based on my experience as both a long-time executive and a certified executive and leadership coach.
Dear Reader, In a recent coaching session, my client expressed this to me about a few members of her team: "I think they’re fighting for comfort instead of fighting to learn." Not because they don't value learning.Not because they aren't smart.Not because they don't understand the business case for change. Because comfort makes incredibly compelling arguments. I’ve heard one or more of these statements numerous times over my career (and in full disclosure, I’ve absolutely uttered each of them...
Dear Reader, A client said something to me this week that I hear in one form or another all the time: "I just don't want them to think I'm mean." She wasn't talking about firing someone. She wasn't talking about delivering harsh feedback. She wasn't talking about denying a promotion. She was talking about setting a perfectly reasonable expectation of one of her team members. And yet, there it was. The fear. Not of being wrong or of making a bad decision, but of disappointing someone. And this...
Dear Reader, Last week was my birthday. And while I don't spend much time worrying about age, I did spend a little time talking with a friend about certain things I am apparently too old for now. Some examples: 👉 Standing for 3+ hours at a concert when there are perfectly good seats available. 👉 Tiny restaurant menus that require either reading glasses or my phone’s flashlight (usually both) 👉 Staying up until midnight and pretending I'll be fine the next day. 👉 Working all weekend because...